For Better or for Worse
The sweetest part of being a couple is to get married!
But how can you outrun the rough patches,fears,temptations and doubts in marriage?
A Wedding Day was filled with happiness and we are expecting a better life with our partner.You'll make plans for the good future even dream together and see yourselves growing old with your children.
The church where i got married: Sta.Clara De Montefalco Church Pasig City
I got married in 2010 and as the other spouse it's natural to had a misunderstanding with our partner.there's no marriage which is conflict-free!
"It's not the differences in a marriage that cause problems,but how a couple handles the differences" by Beth Levine
Life isn't perfect and full of probation but let me tell you this,just enjoy being together and grab some time to eat outside or watch movie with no pressure.
If you didn't notice,other people often carry their problems from one relationship to another which can really cause a problem.I read this article from the author of "Fighting for your Marriage"
It's time to build a better relationship in your marriage!
You need to learn how to "Listen"
Let your spouse speak up his/her concerns,opinions even resentments.It was really important so we can comprehend the situation and his/her statement.
It's not necessarily that you'll agree what he/she has said but at least we listened.Avoid talking while your spouse is speaking.Reflect back in some words he/she uttered then it's time for you to correct some mistakes.
"Stop dragging up some past transgressions"
This is the common problem in a relationship,if it's the past it's better not to talk about it because there's a possibility to say hurtful words again.
We don't usually forget,but we need to forgive,leave it and learn from it.We are able to take that lessons from a certain experience in our lives and ensure that next time we fall,don't repeat or make the same mistakes again.
"Communicate and admit your mistakes"
In every conflict it was really important to communicate openly and to realize your own responsibility in a certain issue.Speak what's on your mind and about your concerns.Let it out!
Some people were not comfortable in speaking openly and at the same time to admit his/her mistakes.If you don't communicate,sometimes it creates hostility but don't ever pin anyone or anything to other people
Realize your mistakes,discuss,fix it and don't do it again.
You just need to make things right,it's not the end to correct your flaws and shortcomings.
"Chances"
We want to live stress-free and we don't want to get into the same trouble again that's why some relationships or their marriage often put on the back burner.
Some spouse take everything for granted,right?they think that they can always make up for what they did.It really cause a problem!but that's fact.
We just need to fix everything and chances were still there.All of us commit mistakes but it depends to the situation.Like,if there has been such infidelity issue!that's painful.
Precisely,expect the wounds won't heal but some couple work hard to regain the trust in their relationship and for the sake of their children.
Start to go back where you were before to build up the fun,positive memories and ensure the painful past won't happen again.
As what they've said rough patches can make a relationship better even though it's hard and it took about a year to regain the trust.
Always value your family but still give time for yourself,respect yourself!
Those probation will also test your love and trust to God,to give you strength and to decide what's the right thing to do.
Keep your heads up and face each trails,be prepared to endure what life can possibly throws at us!
The sweetest part of being a couple is to get married!
But how can you outrun the rough patches,fears,temptations and doubts in marriage?
A Wedding Day was filled with happiness and we are expecting a better life with our partner.You'll make plans for the good future even dream together and see yourselves growing old with your children.
The church where i got married: Sta.Clara De Montefalco Church Pasig City
I got married in 2010 and as the other spouse it's natural to had a misunderstanding with our partner.there's no marriage which is conflict-free!
"It's not the differences in a marriage that cause problems,but how a couple handles the differences" by Beth Levine
Life isn't perfect and full of probation but let me tell you this,just enjoy being together and grab some time to eat outside or watch movie with no pressure.
If you didn't notice,other people often carry their problems from one relationship to another which can really cause a problem.I read this article from the author of "Fighting for your Marriage"
It's time to build a better relationship in your marriage!
You need to learn how to "Listen"
Let your spouse speak up his/her concerns,opinions even resentments.It was really important so we can comprehend the situation and his/her statement.
It's not necessarily that you'll agree what he/she has said but at least we listened.Avoid talking while your spouse is speaking.Reflect back in some words he/she uttered then it's time for you to correct some mistakes.
"Stop dragging up some past transgressions"
This is the common problem in a relationship,if it's the past it's better not to talk about it because there's a possibility to say hurtful words again.
We don't usually forget,but we need to forgive,leave it and learn from it.We are able to take that lessons from a certain experience in our lives and ensure that next time we fall,don't repeat or make the same mistakes again.
"Communicate and admit your mistakes"
In every conflict it was really important to communicate openly and to realize your own responsibility in a certain issue.Speak what's on your mind and about your concerns.Let it out!
Some people were not comfortable in speaking openly and at the same time to admit his/her mistakes.If you don't communicate,sometimes it creates hostility but don't ever pin anyone or anything to other people
Realize your mistakes,discuss,fix it and don't do it again.
You just need to make things right,it's not the end to correct your flaws and shortcomings.
"Chances"
We want to live stress-free and we don't want to get into the same trouble again that's why some relationships or their marriage often put on the back burner.
Some spouse take everything for granted,right?they think that they can always make up for what they did.It really cause a problem!but that's fact.
We just need to fix everything and chances were still there.All of us commit mistakes but it depends to the situation.Like,if there has been such infidelity issue!that's painful.
Precisely,expect the wounds won't heal but some couple work hard to regain the trust in their relationship and for the sake of their children.
Start to go back where you were before to build up the fun,positive memories and ensure the painful past won't happen again.
As what they've said rough patches can make a relationship better even though it's hard and it took about a year to regain the trust.
Always value your family but still give time for yourself,respect yourself!
Those probation will also test your love and trust to God,to give you strength and to decide what's the right thing to do.
Keep your heads up and face each trails,be prepared to endure what life can possibly throws at us!
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